An afternoon watchalong! Radical! And Dil To Pagal Hai, a movie I find dull, but SRK is charming and the songs are okay, so I will survive.
Dil To Pagal Hai
It’s on Prime, and available for rent at all the places. My second least favorite Madhuri-SRK collaberation (Koyla, Anjaam, Gaja Gamini, Hum Tumhare Hain Sanam, Dil To Pagal Hai, Devdas), but undeniably a hit and important in the great Shahrukh Khan story.

At 4pm Chicago time, I will put up an “And PLAY!” comment and then we will all comment along from there.
Why is he making so much noise while changing clothes? All the grunts and stuff, 😆
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It does seem to take him a lot of effort to change his shirt.
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Very tight jeans to get out of
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To be honest, that is how I feel while changing/putting on clothes. I always feel like I’m going to get lost inside them until my head and arms are safely out of the holes!
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I bet this Karisma putting clothes on SRK is how Karan treats him when he takes SRK shopping. Source – KWK
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Ehehehehehe, probably!
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Hota hai ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
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Why did Madhuri go into the dressing room just to hold shirts up to herself?
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Because she wanted to see how they looked on her. No mirror outside / frowned upon for a woman to look at herself in a shop in that India. Also they don’t want to show her undressing and actually trying clothes 😛
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How did SRK get the pants off over his shoes?
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So many mysteries!
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That must be why he was grunting so much!
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EXACTLY!
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They didn’t open the box until just now?
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The 11 year old loved the joke of forgetting to put on pants, but then it made him so embarrassed he walked out.
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He is gonna have a hard time over the next 8 years with body embarassment.
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Aw c:
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Please please please let Madhuri wear a something that isn’t skin tight!
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Hey, that blue thing was pretty flattering on Madhuri! And this purple one isn’t bad either.
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I hated the blue! I saw her underwear lines and every belly pudge it created. But the purple is nice.
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In which Madhuri independently invents Galentine’s Day.
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Gosh I was so taken in by this. Has taken me 25 years to get past it!
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I think Valentines Day must be bigger in India than it is in the U.S.
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It’s actually a major political issue, which is Blech. The right wing is against it because it promotes love, and westernization, there are regular vandalism attacks on stores advertising Valentine’s Day stuff.
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Oh and they also dislike boys and girls romancing. Mumbai is literally the only place it is acceptable… police won’t arrest you for making out by the sea side
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Yes you bet
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Did/does your family do Valentine’s Day things? Mine never did for religious reasons, and I used to think it was kind of a Catholic cultural thing like St. Patrick’s, but since I’ve moved to the Northeast it seems like a lot of people of different backgrounds to Valentine stuff.
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No it is not a family thing… was more a young people thing. Nowadays there will be flowers and chocolates between married couples sometimes
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Ah, I had meant the question for Genevieve and her west-coast US people. But it’s interesting to know that it’s not just a movie fiction putting all of these Valentine’s things into Bolly films : )
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We make eachother family cards and have muffins for breakfast. It isn’t romantic. Kids at school exchange cards with everyone in the class, but they are mass made or purchased. Only becomes romantic in the second half of high school, and even then we were buying flowers for our best friends.
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It used to be a thing in high school… watching who will say “I ❤ U" to whom etc 😛
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Huh. I grew up/live in the midwest and it was and is definitely A Thing. You had to give cards to everyone in your class at school, and couples would have special date nights and exchange presents. Although not an occasion for a special party necessarily, really just a couple thing.
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Hmmm. It definitely had a more religious character where I grew up–not in that it was a religious observance per se, but that people did or didn’t do Valentine’s along religious lines. Mostly Catholics, some Episcopalians and Lutherans. Other Christian denominations didn’t want anything to do with saints and of course we Karaites were off in a corner doing completely different things ( ; I imagine there would be a lot of outcry there if it were a thing in public schools.
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Boy everyone is you young.
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Karisma looks so good in this to me… light blue
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The color is nice on her. So that I feel extra bad that she is in love with her best friend who is clueless.
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I like that interpretation ( ;
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She has a costume in a similar color in “Raja Hindustani,” IIRC. It’s a very good color for her!
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So this movie was mostly a showcase for Shiamak Devar, up and coming young choreographer/dance team person. But this song is 100% a Farah Khan piece! I don’t even have to look it up to be sure. Only Farah is this into balloons, and this good at making SRK look good.
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Yes Shiamak did 4 and Farah did 2. Dholna is also Farah
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Totally not surprising, my two favorites!
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He really does look good in this song. THe 11 year is not fond of the female playback singers super high voice.
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Dislike old Lata mangeshkar voice… Dunno why YRF and Karan kept using her
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I dooo enjoy Lata’s voice but …. she sounds so much older to me in these later films that it never matches the young actress in age
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but to disagree with myself…. it is kind of like you are getting two different performances for one: young and older
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What’s really spectacular is the few late in life songs Lata did for age appropriate characters. Do/don’t watch Luka Chuppi from Rang De Basanti. Do watch it because it’s amazing, don’t watch it because it’s heartbreaking.
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She doesn’t sing BADLY at this age, but her voice definitely doesn’t suit for Mads’s or Karisma’s ages. I don’t know why music directors didn’t just offer her more songs for older characters/montage songs by this date.
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Yes. She was actually not singing for anyone. She made an exception for YRF, Karan Johar and AR Rahman
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I feel like Lata’s final performance for a heroine of that time might have been Preity for Veer-Zaara but I could be wrong. The age gap was painfully obvious in that one but it was also considered necessary at the time coz of the bond she had with the late composer (Madan Mohan) whose tunes they were using in that film (to honour his life’s work. All of them were largely unreleased tunes at the time).
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Hate this white silk nightie on Madhuri
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REally! I actually like it, and I dislike so much of this movie’s fashions. Why did you hate it?
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I agree with Naina! For me it is because it hangs straight from the breasts, which makes her look like a tree trunk instead of an hourglass.
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Yes you describe it better!!
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I dunno… I guess in general I am not a fan of nightie as a piece of clothing. The straps should have been lace things instead of tiny wide elastics 😛
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I think I liked it because it actually looked like something one could sleep in, AND it wasn’t so tight I could see all her underwear lines.
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How do you type and watch at the same time? Any tips?
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I have it playing on the big screen of my TV and type on my tiny laptop so it is easy to look back and forth without blocking the TV.
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I keep typing and end up listening to the movie only lol
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Maybe it’s easier for those of us who aren’t Hindi fluent? It’s just noise in the background to me unless I am looking at the subs.
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I have to admit I always have trouble with this… I use the app jetpack and the website but can’t figure out how to see the comments live without reloading the page and comments over and over. BTW I’m watching on my iPad with comments in another window.
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I use a double-monitor for work so I set up in my office with the movie playing on one screen and DCIB on the other monitor. But I don’t have a TV so my options are pretty limited.
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“How did she get a balloon?”
“I don’t know, these movies do not make sense at all!”
“They are kinda fun even if they don’t make sense.”
“I don’t know, they are too long. They need to turn every Bollywood movie into three one hour episodes.” – The 11 year old says as he continues to watch.
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Make sure to tell him he does NOT have one true love who will magically appear and if they don’t, he will never be happy. Don’t let this film mess with his tiny brain!
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I’m fairly certain his peers will mess with his brain more than any singular film.
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To be fair, they come in two ninety-minute episodes! I’m always scandalized when DVDs/streamers cut out the interval title. It tells me where to stop for the night and pick up tomorrow ( ;
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In India, for me, movies were doing the parenting.
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The extreme force to press a button – almost simulating slamming the phone.
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This bed looks like Nisha’s room in HAHK
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Not enough chocolate around!
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Akshay! your HAIR!!!!
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I like this pajama set better on Madhuri
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Ashkay’s hair looked like a helmet!
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Okay, this white outfit is really good. Slightly tighter, and the ponytail makes her look young.
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+1
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I still thought it was too tight. But I didn’t hate it.
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Oh thank goodness, running around like that shook his hair up. Is this the only movie Akshay and Madhuri did together?
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HOW could you forget our adventure with “Aarzoo”?!?!
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I have to say young Akshay does have a kinda sexy nerd vibe. Nowadays I don’t see any of the sexiness, but when he was younger it was definitely there.
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I love Karisma’s dance in this movie
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“taakeela”
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I really wanna know what is in this gift. Won’t be standard to see it?
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Oh, I really really want Indian restaurant food now!
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Gosh we shd go to India together… India restaurant food in India is so good 😛
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I don’t live near any good basic Indian restaurants and it is so sad! There’s a fabulous himalayan place nearby, but I want that sort of “restaurant standard” food that isn’t from any particular region.
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Why isn’t tequila for women? Cognac was ok for Kajol… but tequila not for Karisma? 😛
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I guess Adi’s ideal of womanhood changed.
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Adi vs Yash Chopra?
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After watching this movie, it was just every teenager dream to do shots like this.
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Having at one point rented a room that the landlady filled to bursting with Mickey Mice, I do NOT approve of Karisma’s stuffed animal collection.
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Shahrukh is Killing It in this scene. He’s worried about her and cares for her and takes it seriously, but not even a hint of “I love you too”
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❤ Thank you!!!!
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What do you think of SRK’s reaction to learning she loves him?
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I already put my comment above, but I think it was perfect. Perfect as a character touch, that he is a little scared and worried and serious about it, not laughing it off. And perfectly acted because he gives us all that in his face.
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Sigh, he is a great actor. Even in the movies that aren’t my favorites, but I do like this movie, I love all the dancing, I just don’t like the Madhuri & SRK pairing.
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Also interesting how Madhuri completely doesn’t see Akshay as a “man”
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Hey I just realized that Akshay’s relationship with Madhuri mirrors SRK’s relationship with Karisma. They both play jokes on the female, and she hates it. Those are the “immature” relationships.
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Yep!!!!
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Where they go for a day is Baden Baden Germany or something?
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I think so? Isn’t there a dancing stuffed animal at some point?
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Don’t like Madhuri’s brown outfit
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Don’t like the second outfit with the knotted shirt either 😛
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Also brown/tan! This costume department is allergic to putting our beautiful Mads in vivid colors.
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It has to be either boring colors/good fit, or bad fit/bright colors. Never both!
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Sighhhhhhhhhhhhh
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Oh, that might be the outfit I was thinking of as the brown outfit, with the loose pants. So far we are doing a great job of completely disagreeing with the other’s fashion preferences.
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I think it is so flattering!
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Now that we have reached Title Song, I want to acknowledge all the other movies that played with these same one sided friendship love dynamics!!! First of all, KANK, in which the heroine DOES marry the guy who feels more like a brother but she loves his family, and the hero DOES marry the best friend who seems a good match. And then it goes wrong in a few years because you can’t build a solid relationship on one sided love.
And then there’s Kal Ho Na Ho, in which Saif puts in the time to gently turn their teasing friendship into romance instead of just trusting it to work out.
Oh, and Ae Dil Hai Mushkil! Which landed on “friendship itself is actually awesome, don’t be a creep about being in love with her”.
What else?
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So was this movie Adi falling out of love with his wife who was his good friend from younger days?
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Maybe! It was a couple more years before he officially moved out of their house though.
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He was dreaming of his own Maya to come, wanting something more than what he had. So he made this ridiculous movie, and put his frustration with his own friendship romance into the movie.
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Aw, that’s such a sweet interpretation. And he met Rani when he was producing and she was performing!
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I think this is India progressing from… parents choose a partner for you and you make it work
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Maybe just a general maturity in terms of the effort it takes to make a long term healthy relationship? I really Kal Ho Na Ho’s version that says a longtime teasing friend is actually a great choice for a life partner, so long as you are also at least a little bit in love with each other. Versus the old school idea of “either you have an arragned marriage, or you fall in love at first sight, nothing in between”
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Yep that too. But just the fact there is now choice baked in.
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I relate so much better with Karisma’s style here….
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Oof, Akshay with his hair slicked back is NOT a good look.
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Ugh, wet hair akshaye
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I like this Madhuri airport outfit…
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I like the fit but the little yellow bitties look like they are for a 6 year old.
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At least it fits well😀😀 the hair looks good.
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Blonde highlights
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He always has helmet head in the airports, or perhaps they filmed the airport scenes on the same day.
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I like the voice of worry which is also the voice of the airport gate announcer : )
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Good catch!
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What do you all think of him springing this on her so last minute???
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I mean shouldn’t she have more than 45 secs to think about it
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They did establish that he was trying to say something the whole visit. But I think the problem is, he should have realized the reason it was hard to say was because she didn’t want to hear it. It’s understandable that he went for it, but he really should have slept on it and realized it didn’t feel right because it was wrong.
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Oh but if only men were thinking about who’s on the receiving end. I’m feeling triggered!!
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Dinnertime for me! Anybody else have a nice meal/snacks for the movie?
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leftovers for a late lunch – teriyaki chicken
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Nice!
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Waiting for my takeout
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Oooh, I hope it comes soon : D
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I have a Family Size pack of oreos that I should probably put back in the kitchen.
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Ehehehehe! I don’t have much for a sweet tooth but Oreos are dangerous for me.
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I have been simmering adas bilhamod all day. It is a sour soup with lentils, lemon, and greens. Now that the cold weather has come, it’s time to eat all the delicious Egyptian sour soups : D
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See, this is where SRK’s character is so much more mature than Madhuri’s! He knows long term it doesn’t matter if he makes Nisha happy by seeming to return her feelings, it’s better to be honest. Madhuri is naive enough to just try to make Akshay happy.
Or, is this a whole gender statement? Madhuri is trained to please others always because she is a girl? While SRK as a boy is more comfortable with unpleasant truths?
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The latter…. a woman rejecting a man straight up… not a popular thing in Indian cinema.
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Or in life
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The whole acid on the face thing —- it would make one want to sweet talk back.
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Yep! You got it
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Well the pup is giving me too much distraction to keep watching. Gotta get him out. Thanks for letting me pop in for a bit! Hope everyone has a great time!
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Say “hi” to the dog for us!
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Great to have you!!! Hi to puppy!
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Bye, Harley! Thank you for hanging out!
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Indian Chinese in India…. still my favorite!
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