It’s Sunday, I’ve ordered coffee, I’ve walked the dog, I am ready to watch a nice South Indian version of Jane Austen.
Kandukondain Kandukondain! Lovely lovely movie, and I challenge you to pick between Ajit and Mammootty as Best Man Ever by the end of it. Best Woman Ever is easy, that is always Tabu.

At 8am Chicago time, I will put up an “And PLAY” comment and we will all comment along together from there!
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Here 🙂
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And PLAY!
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So excited, this is literally the movie that made me fall in love with Indian cinema when I was 12 ❤
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Awwwwww! This is the movie I saw right before I fell in love, I watched this on a Saturday and then DDLJ on a Sunday as part of the same filem series.
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No wonder you fell in love!
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Very pumped to share this with you! And I hope you have a familiarity with Sense and Sensibility too because it will make you appreciate it even more.
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I’ve seen it a couple of times. Love it!
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Anyone have any idea what this war is supposed to be? Sri Lanka?
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Going by the dates and location most likely
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Not participating just reading, since I love this movie so much and can visualise each and every scene. Its Sri Lanka, India sent peacekeeping troops to Sri Lanka during the late 80s, triggering the assassination of Rajiv Gandhi. It connects to his whole speech about why his sacrifice is not appreciated especially in the context of Tamil Nadu which has a lot of connection to LTT +despised this move of sending the peacekeeping troops to Sri Lanka and the pointlessness of his loss. It’s really brilliant of Rajiv Menon to add this more complex issue to this movie. It makes Manmooty’s character more deep and makes us root for him more
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Thank you! I was thinking watching him that he reminds me of Vietnam Vets in America, and it is very similar. Fighting in a war that had no support and coming home even more damaged.
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Yeah, I think it would be even worse as a Tamilian as you’re fighting against your own kind. It is a very unique take on the typical image of an army man.
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Wow, I am having SUCH a strong flashback. Not only is this the second Indian movie I watched ever, it is one of the first soundtracks I bought. I’m thrown all the way back 20 years with these opening credits.
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Such a good soundtrack! Love late 90s Rahman so much.
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I love this meta film moment
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Tabu! And Aish!!!!
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Such a beautiful intro for our heroines!
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I’m not consciously aware of knowing aish’s voice, but I can sure tell she is being dubbed here!
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But she is so cute that you don’t really care
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Baby Aish is so so cute!! ❤
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ONE OF THE BEST INTRO SONGS FOR A HEROINE EVER!
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I would argue, Choti Se Asha! I love that one. But this is pretty good too.
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Well, from non-Mani Ratnam movies at least this is a fantastic one. So is Minsara Kanavu. Wow! A lot of 90s Tamil films just knew how to introduce a heroine so well.
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Oh oh! Minsara Kanavu is the same director!
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No wonder then! Rajiv Menon is wonderful. Wish he did more movies.
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What I really love is that Aish gets this big perky song, and Tabu DOESN’T. Because they aren’t interchangeable heroines, they are very different people and for once the film doesn’t just lump all women together.
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I love the little sister so much “Has he died?!” 😮
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They could definitely put more effort into understanding grandad.
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And getting him some kind of speech therapy or really any kind of therapy so he has more independence.
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But PLOT
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Love this cat marriage and the grandmother with marriage as being the wake up call buzzer
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Ajith and Tabu are so cute I can’t STAND it
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The silent looks are killing me
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Mammootty is so cute with his lovely roses and that garden is so beautiful. A soft teddy bear!
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But he doesn’t Gaze! Ajith Gazes!!!!
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He does! As soon as he sees Aish his gazes are just so adorable whenever he is around her
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Hello!
Where are we?
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30 minutes in, Aish is singing.
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Every song is so great in this, but this is just so so beautiful and addictive
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It’s my favorite
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Hi Angie!
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Okay, two things. First, notice how the first groom was all about Aish as soon as he saw her? And now Aish has a whole song and TAbu is just standing there and Ajith is all about Tabu and blind to Aish. Love them together.
Second, notice that in conversations Tabu was all “arranged marriage” and Aish was all “love marriage”? Only now sensible sane Tabu is falling for a stranger, and Aish is eventually going to pick the man who makes the most practical sense for her and who her mother would choose.
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They just chose those who reminded them more of their sibling and thus were a good fit for them too. I love it!
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I could watch Aish dance all day. Mesmerizing
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I suspect this song caused my obsession with the peacocks.
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Mammootty ❤
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He is my favorite too. I love Tabu and Ajith, but Mammootty and Aish in this movie hold a special place in my heart
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Yes. In the Mohanlal – Mzmmootty discussion I was always team Mammootty, without knowing why exactly. But now, when I rewatch this film it’s very clear why.
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Yea, I haven’t seen maybe any Mohanlal films, but I just know I love Mammootty more in my core somehow
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I’m Mohanlal!!!! I’ve seen a fair number with both now and I am Mohanlal all the way. But this is the role where Mammootty came closest to winning me over.
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Why should I watch to fully appreciate Mohanlal?
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Namukku Parkkan Munthirithoppukal , it’s lovely
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Mammootty is actually a really great PTSD character, isn’t he? WE don’t usually get the full survivor guilt, out of step with the world, just plain unpleasant experience.
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I love that Mammootty is this loud drunk angry man, and he grows flowers and loves classical music. Big mushy heart in the center of him.
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He is a Teddy Bear ❤
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The best kind of hero in my opinion.
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I love how Aish can give back without hesitation
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In a way her immaturity and dreamworld is perfect for Mammootty. Everyone else is tiptoeing around him and trying to respect his pain, and Aish just barrels in.
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Okay, notice that Tabu is only in songs in the vision of Ajith??? She doesn’t dance or sing in real life, she’s all practical. And she never even dreams of it. But Ajith can see that in her, the magic under the practical.
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Love the detail that all the dreamy, very filmi / creative characters get their songs and dances (Aish and Ajith) meanwhile Mammotthy and Tabu don’t get their songs, but we aren’t sorry because we know why
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Aish and Mamootthy are so cute!!
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I love how they KNOW he has stopped drinking because of love…true friendship right there
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Obviously, Tabu is beautiful, but they are totally underplaying her beauty in this movie and I love it. Aish is splashy and goregous and impossible to ignore, Tabu is queitly beautiful, but she has a dude who loves her no matter what.
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Okay, important question, Alan Rickman or Mammootty? Who is the better Colonel Brandon??? I think Mammootty is the better written character, but Alan Rickman still is the one for me.
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You cannot get me to choose between them. Impossible!
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Okay, then how about Tabu versus Emma???
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No! I will not choose between these adaptations. Both are splendid in their own fields and type of movies that they are in their respective industries.
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By the way, Chiyaan Vikram dubbed for Abbas here! Again, one of the tragedies where Vikram and Aish ‘technically’ worked together, but only until Raavanan / Raavan came did they actually act together. They are such a great Jodi and no, I will never shut up about them! Go watch Raavanan!
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I loved this film from the first watch and it’s still one of my most beloved movies, but I must admit I forgot many details. Now, while we are watching I realize it has everything I love and search in films: Teddy bear hero, long gazes, the heroine being classical singer. And the question is: I always loved all this or felt in love with those things thanks to this movie?
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I think Teddy Bear Hero was inborn, but maybe the classical singer is from this!
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I love Mammootty! Bringing Horlicks! Total husband material, this dude is worthless with his dumb poems.
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Yea, Mammootty has substance, meanwhile Abbas is all superficiality
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See how Aish speaks up to Mammootty and it is good for hima nd makes him love her more? And Abbas is The Worst?
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Half of my brain is making an edit where I see young Vikram’s face instead of Abbas’ because his voice is so distinctive I am just imagining him in this movie. I deserve my Aish and Vikram 90s rom-com film somehow because damn they should have been together sooner! The SRK and Kajol of Tamil cinema for sure if it had happened. 100% sure!
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Why was Abbas dubbed?
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I was wondering that too
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Yea I have no idea why, maybe he couldn’t speak the poetry as fluently with his own voice so they had to dub it to sound natural for the character…that’s my best guess
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No idea
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Found it! He’s Bengali. So like Aish, he learned Tamil to mouth it, but isn’t fluent. Their scenes together must have been so odd, two people talking a language they don’t know.
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Thank you!!
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Mammootty and Aish are totally one of those couples that I just want to watch living their lives. Like, if they wanted to do a spin off of this movie where Mammootty and Aish travel the world solving crimes, I would be down for that. He gets angry and grumpy and she yells at him for it, she speaks out of turn and he smiles and smooths it over.
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Oh, I want some coconut milk straight from the coconut with straws…I miss Asia
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Grandpa scenes are so stressful
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“I like this house.” Perfect character introduction
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Now that I’m older and have seen more things, this will part is even more infuriating
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I find it opposite. So many movies it wouldn’t even be treated as a problem. Of course the son inherits, and everyone should be happy about that and greet him warmly even if he has never been home before. At least this movie is questioning a little.
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Yes, but it hits too close to home
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I love how spunky Aish is in this. Full out a force of nature!
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Yes. Finally someone who tells how it is.
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Aish is both so badass and so vulnerable and cute in this film it really shows the different shades of her character instead of just labeling her as the ‘pretty one’
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Oh man, this Certificate thing is so real! Especially in computer programming. You’ve got all these self-taught or trained on the job folks who know more than folks with degrees, but the HR department has to check off the degree requirement before they will hire you.
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This is when I start to fall in love with Aish’s character! Back in the village she was kind of a brat, it wasn’t clear if she was strong just because she had never faced adversity or not. But now she has switched from thinking only of herself to wanting to contribute to the family.
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Question, is Srikanth a conman, or just bad at his job, or just a victim of circumstances? I honestly can’t tell.
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For me he is a conman
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Conman! Hence spending all his time going on about confidence rather than, e.g. wisdom and prudence.
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Maybe Conman who conned himself? He doesn’t seem to have built in an escape hatch to get away with the money.
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He is a buffoon, that’s for sure.
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