Happy Halloween! I have my spooky Halloween earrings on, my coffee, and I’ve walked the dog. Let’s do this!
First, most importantly, my new Halloween earrings!

Okay, now movie stuff! At 7:30am, I will post a “And PLAY” comment and then we start commenting along right here below this post.
As annoying as some of this is, this scene gave me chills.
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I just said something similar!
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Oh Shahrukh! Such a sweet way of proposing! Although also nothing that would stand up in court, I don’t know if Rani should start planning the wedding just on that.
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Why is Miss Braganza wandering around campus in her nightgown?
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She is a very confident woman
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How else is she going to get Malhotra to make his move?! She has to spell it out for him.
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This head bowing scene is where I fell for Shahrukh I think 🙂
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Yupp. All of his previous annoying characteristics just wash away in that scene!
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Wait, why is Kajol running around campus in her pajamas??? What is this campus????
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NOOOO! Sad misunderstanding song!!!!!! Kajol all alone in her love fantasy and Shahrukh and Rani together!
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Aren’t all of them fantasizing? No one is actually with anyone?
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Yes, but notice even in the fantasy, Rani and Shahrukh keep getting together, and Kajol is on the outside. They are love complete, she is love possible.
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Yeah that’s true
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This song honestly took a while to grow on me
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This song is the first thing I saw about this movie. And I right away fell in love with adorable short haired girl. I could tell by the filming that I was supposed to like the other woman, but I never did.
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Yes! Kajol is really “acting” in this song more than the other two, you can see who she is and how she feels and just fall in love with her right away.
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Rani is in traditional clothes. That means we have moved into the true love portion of the relationship. They have to get married now.
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This song is really amazing. We get the love triangle spelled out, so clear that Rani and SRK are in love an Kajol is just dreaming of him by herself. Plus the lyrics are perfect for young start of love euphoria, slightly different from the usual. And I want all of Kajol’s sweaters.
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NOOOOO!!!! Painful horrible scary scene! I have to look away.
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Ouch, this scene HURTS!
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I hate Rahul so much here! Also, I can relate to Kajol so much here. I was Kajol!
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We all at least have to commend Kajol for being so forward about why she was doing it.
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Kajol’s vulnerability in this scene is EVERYTHING!
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No!!! Let Tina walk away! She could have fallen in love with someone else and lived!!! You are just setting her up for heartbreak one way or the other.
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She would have died after giving birth to someone else’s child.
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:O
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In one of those deep dives into this scene, Karan said Shah Rukh was punching the column because he was so mad at himself for being terrible at laughing convincingly. That was the last of a bunch of takes he’d messed up.
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Aww. I didn’t know that. That is so sweet.
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I love that in this movie, kids fall in love and parents are understanding and normal. HOW IT SHOULD ALWAYS BE!!!!
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Despite his silliness at the beginning, Anupam is a pretty great dad in this movie.
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THIS is the scene that kills me.
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3….2…..1…..HEARTBREAK!!!
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My heart just broke!!!! Anjali’s face!!!!
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Kajol’s face. She is so good.
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I just curled into a ball on my bed and am about to burst into tears.
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I want to give Kajol a BIG HUG!
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Kajol saying I love you too. Oooooof! I can’t!
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THe rain, the heavens feel her pain.
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Somewhere WICKED the musical’s ‘I’m not that girl’ plays in the distance
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What’s amazing about this scene is you can’t even be mad at Shahrukh! Or, at least, you know it is unfair to be mad at him. He’s happy and scared and emotional just as much as she is. That “oh shit” was just right.
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THat moment where she pulls back from the hug is her best acting this whole movie.
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It might me just me but every time I see this song, I picture Neena Gupta as the lead dancer.
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I put the album on shuffle as my alarm this morning and this song is what came up, and it’s mor estartling than you think it’d be
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Again, this is a parallel of the charades scene “I love you”, with so many parallel emotions, and yet he manages to make his face and gestures more immature to where he seems like a different guy.
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Something that just occurs to me, the whole movie up until now has been about Kajol as a tomboy, uncomfortable with woman stuff. But this song leaps past the shallow college girl identity that she struggles with into mature womanly heartbreak, places her firmly into a sisterhood.
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The songs are so apt at capturing exactly what the characters are feeling, movies these days are missing that I feel
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Agreed. Everything just feels so meticulously done in this movie. I miss that in movies now.
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It is kind of weird to leave before exams. I hope she could take them remotely. Or finished out her degree with a semester somewhere else.
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I have always been curious about this. Does she not have a degree? Did she return to college years later and that’s why she gets married so late? How is she teaching kids without a degree (I’m assuming an M.Ed or something is required).
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Well, she’s just teaching dance at a summer camp. And her Mom’s house is really really big. Maybe her “job” is just taking care of her Mom and house and occasionally teaching dance classes?
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Huh. I always thought she was managing the whole camp and dance is just one thing that she teaches, since she’s the only adult other than Lever and is always leading the pujas and what not.
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In the US, as long as you get your teaching certificate, you can teach. Not sure how many courses you have to take, but you at least have to pass a test and can have a degree in whatever. Maybe it’s something similar in India.
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Oh I forgot how abruptly that song ends
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This scene is so good. Shahrukh isn’t “in love” with her all of a sudden. He feels just the same as before, but is blind to what his actions are revealing about what those feelings are. This isn’t just friendship!
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Is this an argument for polygamy?
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This whole movie is an argument for polygamy!
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This is such a great Rani look though. I will miss her outfits in the second half.
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Kajol is in white because she is mourning the death of her love.
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I appreciate SRK’s sweat marks. Running after trains is exercise.
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On my way to soccer! Have fun with the rest! Happy Halloween!
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Rani – you died and now expect an 8 year old to play matchmaker with no guidance as to how to find Kajol?! You couldn’t have at least found Kajol before you died?!
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Maybe she did! But that was 8 years ago and they’ve lost her again. Also, did it never occur to her that Kajol could have gotten married in the interim and you will forever scar your daughter with a sense of failure?
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Yeah that pressure on a 8 year old id RIDICULOUS!
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What she should have done was have Farida read the letters, and substitute a different 8th birthday one depending on if Kajol was still single and so was Shahrukh.
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This is the one thing I’ve always been curious about. Kajol would be around 29-30, which is horrendously late in movie-time and in 90s desi culture. My idea is that Aman has been in love with her and waiting since she was around 24-25 and she was finishing her degree and getting her teacher’s certificate and taking care of her mom and the fam, so they’re engaged, just waiting for the right time for her to move.
Rani maybe just wants her around as a friend for Rahul, if not a wife.
Dammit, Anjali. Aman is clearly perf.
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Oh yeah, same! They give us this dialogue about Aman “waiting” until she said yes, so that’s what I always filled in. She’s had the poor guy on a string for years and years and put off getting married.
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No issues. We know he’s going to marry Little Anjali when she grows up!
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Obviously! And because of that, I also always assumed Aman was younger than Kajol, like maybe 24 to her 28.
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So maybe the letter just said “Anjali was his best friend in college, they played basketball every day, I think she fell in love with him and left when we got engaged” and everything else was only visible to the audience?
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In 5 pages?
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She wrote big
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Kind of like K3G when the grandmas tell Hrithik the Rahul-Anjali story, but obviously they don’t know about the whole Suraj Hua Maddham dream sequence or the fair or the whole ‘he’s stealing my store’ thing.
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Also, I just found out so I had to say it here, Sean Connery just passed away! I am now all kinds of sad and happy that I have this movie to cheer me up.
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I will have to watch The Untouchables in his honor!
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I got a CNN alert in the middle of Koi Mil Gaya! So sad!
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AND now for the major fault point of this film, she asks her daughter at the age of 8, to find her dad’s lost friend. Because that lost friend wouldn’t have married in 8 years! Because he wouldn’t have found anyone else in 8 years! Because an 8 year old is old enough to set this up? Well, it is a movie.
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It’s one of many plot holes in this movie. I’ve given up making sense of it.
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This scene is cute though.
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This kid has a good grasp on psychology and manipulation, she will be a fantastic super villain someday!!
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HA!
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Specifically in SOTY!
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Grandma never heard of Anjali, the woman her granddaughter is named after! Sigh.
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Because it hurt Shahrukh too much to talk about her! Because he still misses her!
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I love the way Shah Rukh speaks about Anjali. It is adorable!
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Beige is NOT Kajol’s color.
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Also the fit of this outfit is a crime. Her tummy is not that big!
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