1 Year of Blogging!!! Which were my most successful posts?

I mentioned in my 1,001 post that I was getting a couple hundred visitors a day, but it was less impressive than it sounds.  See, I can tell what those visitors are reading, and most of them are not here for my glorious prose and brilliant thoughts.  And I thought, as a gift to you, my readers, I would lift the curtain a little and explain why I post what I post, and why you read what you read.  And at the very end, I tell you what my top 3 posts of all time are right now.

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Happy Dear Zindagi Week! Om Shanti Om and Relationships Beyond Gender

Om Shanti Om!  Not the most obvious comparison for Dear Zindagi.  But I’m thinking specifically of the second half, and the way Shahrukh interacts with Deepika, changing her into a stronger and deeper person.  And the way that interacts with the first half, where it is the other way around.

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Happy Dear Zindagi Week! Jab Tak Hain Jaan, Shahrukh Deals With a Crush

My second Anushka movie of the week!  This time it is NOT a May-December romance.  Or I guess it is a May romance but not a December romance?  It’s unrequited is what I am saying.  And I have to kind of wonder if there is going to be something similar in Dear Zindagi, if only because, how could Alia NOT fall in love with Shahrukh after spending time talking to him?  How can anyone?

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Christmas Card Give Away Winner Week 3!!!

Merry 6 weeks until January!  And Week 3 of my Christmas give away!  In case you missed last week’s card, here is the link to that post.  This week though, I think, is my greatest creation of this year.  If not of all years!  Oh, and in case you missed the other posts, the rules are, whoever posts the most comments every week gets one of my custom Christmas cards.  And you can only win once, which means there are 9 chances to win!  Well, now 6.

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Happy Dear Zindagi Week! Mohabbatein, Shahrukh as Teacher!

No young women really in his orbit in this one, but that’s part of what I find so interesting.  That just 16 years ago, it was all about the male generations handing things down to each other (Amitabh to Shahrukh to Jugal Hansraj/Uday Chopra/Jimmy Shergill).  And now we are in a space where the future is a young woman.

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Happy Dear Zindagi Week! Rab Ne Bana Di Jodi, Shahrukh in a May December Romance?

I find this an interesting one to think about.  Because Shahrukh manages to be in a May-December romance, in which the power is balanced between both parties.  Very hard to do, often in the fictional version of these relationships, the young woman is supposed to “control” the man with his desire for her, or the man is so much wiser that she obeys him in every way.  But Rab Ne is different.

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Happy Dear Zindagi Week! King Uncle, and Shahrukh as a Supporting Character to a Younger Woman

King Uncle is a silly silly not very good movie.  Did I mention silly?  But it is notable for building an entire film around a female child character.  Children based movies are rare enough in Indian film, but female child based films are even rarer.

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Happy Dear Zindagi Week!!!! K3G and What Happens When Shahrukh Mentors Young Women

Woot!  Dear Zindagi is coming out in a week!  Because Shahrukh loves me and knows I am out of town over Thanksgiving and therefore he is releasing it 2 days early in America, just for me!  In return, as always, I am celebrating a little Shahrukh week before the release (if you somehow missed the Fan and Sultan celebrations, what happens is before a Khan release, I do a series of posts discussing earlier films by the lead in terms of what they might have in common with the upcoming one)

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